It’s been (quite) a year

Dear family and friends,

It has been a LONG time. I feel like I say that a lot….but this time it really has been.

Looking back, my last post was in November which feels a lifetime ago….3 holidays (Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year’s…), a full winter season, and four months later, and here we are.

It’s been a year.

A full year, almost to the day, when I officially moved to Valencia. It really is hard to believe.

In some ways it feels like just yesterday, and in others it feels like I just got here and I am still settling in.

And also almost exactly a year to the day that we lost my dear Dad. A year ago this weekend, I had just arrived and realised I would need to go back home as my Dad was in the hospital. We lost him a week later on March 19, 2022.

It’s been quite a year.

Although it certainly was a challenging year moving to another country and losing my Dad at the same time, I would say all in all, despite the huge loss and missing all of you back home, that this is where I am supposed to be.

As I sit here writing, listening to the crackling, pops, booms and bangs below my balcony, I am reminded too that it’s Fallas–a truly uniquely Valencian tradition that I am still learning about and looking forward to appreciating in its full glory this year. This weekend is the start of the end of Fallas…what everyone has been working up to, the Crema which is next Sunday, March 19.

Life works in mysterious ways.

It is not coincidence that Fallas ends on March 19.

March 19 marks the beginning of spring. It is also St. Joseph’s day.

And in Spain it is Father’s Day. What a way to commemorate and honor my Dad. Love you, Dad!

And so this week we will acknowledge and celebrate all that this year has brought. I will do my best to try to post more regularly in the next few weeks to document and share with you this truly Valencian tradition.

More to come soon!

xoxo K

9 responses to “It’s been (quite) a year”

  1. A year, Katie, and certainly a momentous one! I’m so glad you are where you feel you’re supposed to be, because to many of us Stateside, it felt right for you, too! I can’t wait to spend some time in your new home-town and country! I will certainly be thinking of you on the 19th! ❤️🙏‼️

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  2. Kristen Benjamin Avatar
    Kristen Benjamin

    Good to hear from you, Katie. What a special way to honor you father in your own tradition-and Valencia’s tradition. Much love, and I’m happy to hear you home is suiting you so well! Kristen

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    1. Thank you Kristen! Hope all is well with you.

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  3. So proud of you…dreaming big and achieving what you have worked so hard and so long for.
    Love you,
    Judy

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    1. Thank you Judy! Love you too!

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  4. Jacqueline Hayden Avatar
    Jacqueline Hayden

    HI Katie,

    It is great to hear from you and your reflections!! I have been in Colorado since Jan 31,primarily to visit Lilly, longest winter of my life!! Beautiful and epic, I got Covid after 1 week here and was down and out for 3 weeks…..fully recovered and enjoying the last weeks of ski season.

    Hope to be in Spain and Portugal next winter…….spend a month or so in Valencia…….we have dreams of Roberto being with us but who knows!!!

    Glad you are on your path and hope to see you within a year. Love, Jackie

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  5. Sonja Marhefka-Chapman Avatar
    Sonja Marhefka-Chapman

    Hi Katie,
    WOW! What a tremendous tribute to your dad! We are so happy that your year, although bittersweet, has been fulfilling and you are where you’re “supposed to be”. Not many folks, although envious, could do what you have done….twice! (Milan, now Valencia) ENJOY every moment!!!

    We’re also looking forward to our upcoming adventure with you!!! So very EXCITED!!!!!!!
    See you soon!
    Besos y abrazos,
    Sonja and Mark

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  6. Hi Katie,

    Congratulations on surviving the challenging first year. What a journey…

    As someone who urged them to hire you, I am happy to hear that you feel you are where you are supposed to be (and thanks for letting us know). As much as I miss you here at Hampshire, they are very fortunate to have you.

    I am dreaming of the day that I will be visiting you in Valencia!!

    Junko

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  7. I love your stories and it was so amazing to see you last year. 🙏

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